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# The Problem Is You, Not Them
- URL: https://www.darlison.com/inevitable-trends/
- Published: 2014-01-23T09:53:39.000Z
- Updated: 2026-04-01T10:26:10.000Z
- Description: It isn't what is happening to you, that is the problem. It's how you are reacting to it, that is. Things change and circumstances conspire
- Author: Byron Darlison
- Tags: #Migrated-1760990770760, #sqs, #Import 2025-10-20 16:06

It isn't what is happening to you, that is the problem.

It's how you are reacting to it, that is.

Things change and circumstances conspire.

You can fight it, try to stop it, or, you can look for the opportunity that it presents.

Inevitable trends will work against you, they are "*inevitable*", don't waste resources blocking or blaming them, dive deep into them, use them, even if it means throwing out everything you believe, have, or want to have.

Make your problem your opportunity.